Author Archives: THEMrsSearcy

Whoooo are you?

Had a conversation with my bestie, aka the hubs, about who we knew our parents were during our formative years.The question “I wonder who our kids will say we were?” was pondered.We have our answers, from our point of view, but considering the dysfunctional aspects, theirs could be vastly different.  I used to be upsetContinue reading “Whoooo are you?”

Let’s focus on more than just surviving in 2026. Thrive!…

Let’s focus on more than just surviving in 2026. Thrive! Yes, I get it. And yes it may prove to be a daunting task. HOWEVER, he who promised is faithful! Preparation is each and every thing! Doomsday preppers used to appear a bit unhinged, but they have a point. This is day one of 2026,Continue reading “Let’s focus on more than just surviving in 2026. Thrive!…”

wash, rinse, REPEAT

Many years ago I stopped allowing my kids to partake of “the lord’s supper” aka communion because they didn’t understand it. One of them got upset because her “snack” had been a teenie cup of juice and a piece of cracker. (yes, I laughed) But I made every effort to stop them from participating becauseContinue reading “wash, rinse, REPEAT”

WOW! An entire year has gone by! I don’t have any excuses…

WOW! An entire year has gone by! I don’t have any excuses. I suppose I forgot or maybe, Inwas just too upset to write anything and I do believe that it’s better to say nothing if I can’t say anything nice. Well, no more promises to write more. No more promises, about anything. It willContinue reading “WOW! An entire year has gone by! I don’t have any excuses…”

Tres Preguntas

 1). What do I want next month to feel like. 2). How can I allow myself to be open to attaining that goal? 3). How can I make each day productive? I am always tempted to try the monetization of my posts and my stories on Wattpad. However, I am not brave enough to watch noContinue reading “Tres Preguntas”

Resolutions

Have I wished you a happy new year? Apologies if I haven’t. It’s been a long 15 days. Whew! That’s a statement, huh? I want to be able to comprehend it all in a way that doesn’t disturb me or my peace of mind. I must say that nothing out of the ordinary is wrong.Continue reading “Resolutions”

Cancelation of the Parenting Agreement

 A running theme now a days is about protecting your own peace AT ANY COST. It demands that every one around you must respect your boundaries and your peace. I have noticed that this isn’t without casualties. I’ve spoken with all too many parents and grandparents who have been “blocked” from their children’s lives. IContinue reading “Cancelation of the Parenting Agreement”

Feliz Navidad and a couple of trumpy bears.

 This year, we celebrated on Christmas eve. We had our family meal. It was a Spanish theme, tamales, arroz con pollo, menudo, roasted corn, (it was boiled, but I choose to remember it as roasted), tacos, etc, etcetera, et cetera. Now I’m chilling on the couch watching the kids graze. They eat, play and eatContinue reading “Feliz Navidad and a couple of trumpy bears.”