THEMrsSearcy

I asked the question and the answers weren’t what I expected 😁😃

So, I asked the question: “Do you feel loved?” I asked the 19yr old first her response: “Why? What did I do? Are you giving me back?” (She’s grafted in) I explained why I asked and she laughed, “Girl yes! You scared me! Wait, if I say no do I get a car? 😐 Next,Continue reading “I asked the question and the answers weren’t what I expected 😁😃”

Alone time

I value it, alone time. It’s what’s missing most from my self care “routine”. Giggle, routine… that denotes a set pattern AND on this end that is a huge uh nah. Oh sure, hubby and I lock ourselves in our room and binge watch our favorite shows… however the din outside of our door sortaContinue reading “Alone time”

Ask the questions, do not be alarmed by the answers.

For as long as I can remember I didn’t feel loved. I don’t know how or why that developed in my head, just that it lasted until I met my present husband. I felt loved by Jesus, who was introduced to me as my friend. However, nothing ever truly felt like love to me. Sadly,Continue reading “Ask the questions, do not be alarmed by the answers.”

TeenAngst

I’m currently watching Ginny and Georgia. It’s a Netflix show my Nanagirl wanted to watch with me, well she didn’t say she wanted to watch with me … it is my Tele in my bedroom. I’m blessed to have this insight into her teen mind. However, it causes me to remember my own teen journey,Continue reading “TeenAngst”

DAIS, not as I’ve done

Today, I am feeling angst. My daughter, her bestie and their children are flying out tomorrow and it bothers me in a way that puzzles me. I think it’s the whole pandemic thing, but it feels like something else… a premonition of impending doom. However, I am aware that my sensor is off kilter becauseContinue reading “DAIS, not as I’ve done”

Dr Seuss

In 1965 I was a first grader. I’d been reading since I was four years old. I’m a voracious reader. I enjoyed Dr. Seuss. His early works were odd to me, maybe because I was so young. I introduced his writing to my children and grandchildren. Honestly, it never occurred to me that anything wasContinue reading “Dr Seuss”

For the Sake of…

Have you ever done something just for the sake of getting noticed? Yes, it was a good thing to do, however what was your main motivation? Do something good today and make mention of it to no one.

Can We Talk?

Kids are NOT easy at any age. Mine range from 17 to 40ish. I will not say that I’m a stellar parent, heck I wouldn’t that I’m a good parent. However, I did try to give them the tools to become good, godly women and man. Today, while stressing over one of them who justContinue reading “Can We Talk?”

Bloggers vs Vloggers

Which is better? I’ve learned that it depends. On What? I haven’t figured that out yet. Giggles. I do understand that consistency is the key. Carry on … nothing to see here.

Accepting the Inevitable

What is hope if the unavoidable is THE only outcome? Why do we “hue-mans” seek constant miracles? Is it foolish to believe that if I read Romeo and Juliette one more time… neither of them die and that their children bring peace to the family? There are some basic unavoidable inevitablities, water is wet, soContinue reading “Accepting the Inevitable”